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I am bisexual, polyamorous (not a swinger), straightforward, intelligent, and attractive. I grew up in The Netherlands, and can speak Dutch, German, and English. I live the BDSM lifestyle in real life, together with my Boyfriend/Dom. I have been around in the BDSM Lifestyle for quite some time, but 2 years ago I finally found the Man that I had been trying to find. He is in His late 40s, black (Jamaican born, grew up in UK), strictly straight, a natural Alpha/Dom Male, polyamorous, and completely wonderful. We are living together in London (UK). I am completely happy to share Him with another bisexual submissive woman in a real life closed triad poly/BDSM relationship. I like to read paperback books (love the smell of books), listening to my music (reggae, rock, classical, movie themes, pop, R&B, blues, and jazz), watch movies (psychological thrillers, horrors, mystery, action, sci-fi, erotic), chat online with different people, design websites (also my job), and make photographs (with my phone or cam at the moment, but maybe in the future through a photographer). I love going to the park with my Dom, or alone, and have picnics in the summer. I love to cuddle up on the couch with my lover(s) with something to drink, and watching something nice on tv.

In the BDSM lifestyle I am quite complex, I do not really like to use labels, but I have discovered that this is not really possible, because people will always ask what you “classify” yourself as. So I guess the closest explanation is “Switch”. I am only submissive with my Dom, but a domme with especially women. I am a masochist with my Dom, but a sadist with others. Yet, I am not one to “switch” my roles, my roles are set with each partner. I have lived the Gorean lifestyle for a year, even have been in an Old Guard dynamic, and led a few FemDom led dynamics. But I am finally where I want to be now, a mixture of modern BDSM, Gorean positions, and a twist of the dynamic my Dom and I like to live. My Dom and I are looking to develop a real life poly/BDSM relationship and friendship with bisexual women who are between 18 & 48, bisexual (or at least bi-curious), polyamorous, submissive by nature, interested in/accepting of the BDSM lifestyle (experience is not required), and are preferably from Europe. My Dom allows me to dominate and play with other women, once they are a part of our little poly “family”. If you're interested to get to know me for friendship, and to have a chat about BDSM and Polyamory, feel free to send me a message either here or in the irc chat!